Relationship Offsides by Jason Hernandez

Have you ever felt like you’ve crossed a line in your relationship that didn’t seem like it was there a few moments ago? I often relate this experience to soccer’s rule of "offsides". It’s similar to being “out of bounds”, but the most relevant part is that this line is constantly moving. Imagine how frustrating it would be to believe you are making all the right decisions and then suddenly, someone blows the whistle, and you are told you made a mistake or you’re at fault. This moment can be very surprising, leading to defensive behaviors, and resulting in disconnection.

JasonBrooklynn Rhodes-TumlinMarch 27, 2026Jason, relational, Relationships

Over the Line: Borderline Traits of Invisigal from Dispatch (Part 2) by Mare Hiles

If you love character analysis, mental health insights, or just want to understand why Invisigal is one of Dispatch’s most compelling characters, this blog breaks down the borderline traits, trauma, and humanity that make her unforgettable.

MareBrooklynn Rhodes-TumlinMarch 10, 2026Mental Health, Mare, Geek, video games

Over the Line: Borderline Traits of Invisigal from Dispatch (Part 1) by Mare Hiles

If you love character analysis, mental health insights, or just want to understand why Invisigal is one of Dispatch’s most compelling characters, this blog breaks down the borderline traits, trauma, and humanity that make her unforgettable.

MareBrooklynn Rhodes-TumlinFebruary 25, 2026Mental Health, Mare, Geek, video games

The Unexpected Threesome: Me, You & Your Cancer by Bk Rhodes-Tumlin

Explore with Bk, our sex educator, as they explore how intimacy can shift when cancer enters the relationship, and how intentional touch can help move a partner from caretaker back to lover.

Introducing our Counseling Student Intern Brooke-Lynn Moore

Join us in welcoming our newest counseling student intern: Brooke-Lynn Moore

Announcements, Brooke-LynnBrooklynn Rhodes-TumlinFebruary 2, 2026Journey, LGBTQ, Wellness, Intern, introduction

The Trans Partner Journey

Until my journey began, I had not contemplated the impact on a partner when someone transitions. I had focused solely on the experience of the person transitioning and the magnitude of what it meant to transition. I have come to learn this is also the experience of many other people.

TonyaBrooklynn Rhodes-TumlinAugust 20, 2025tonya keith, Transgender, LGBTQ Partners, Queer, Journey, Group

Alchemy: A Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy Training

Jude Powell recently completed Alchemy’s 7-week Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP) training. Read here to learn more about his experience and to better understand how this will show up in his work!

Therapy, Comedy, and The Scripts We Didn't Write

We’re proud to sponsor Yanni Stone and the Honeypot Trap, a bold and honest exploration of desire, shame, and self-discovery. Our therapist, Saabira Smith, brings a powerful clinical and personal lens to the play’s themes in her companion blog which deepens the conversation around healing and identity. Don’t forget to use code MODERN25 for 25% off your ticket purchase!

Introducing Mackenzie

Join us in welcoming our newest team member, Mackenzie Morgan, RYT-200. She is a professional Cuddler, somatic sexologist in training, and holistic intimacy coach. Mackenzie creates safe, consent-centered spaces where adults can explore platonic touch, restore nervous system balance, and reconnect to their body’s innate wisdom.

MackenzieBrooklynn Rhodes-TumlinJuly 18, 2025LGBTQ, POC, Queer

Doing it for Attention by Elliott Glenn Hutchinson, MA

Read here about Elliott's thoughts on the expectations of "Doing it for Attention" and what that means for connecting with people. Explore with Elliott why doing it for attention is not a wrong behavior.

ElliottBrooklynn Rhodes-TumlinJuly 15, 2025support, DBT, education, Queer